On the theme of angry women:
Nominations please for the Best Songs About Women Getting Violent And/Or Creative Revenge On Men!
* You're aiming to nominate a song that is A) GOOD b) FITS THE THEME and C) YOU THINK I HAVEN'T HEARD YET
* Please OFFICIALLY NOMINATE one song only.
* Put your official nominations in BOLD, please.
* Please include some kind of a LINK whereby your nominated song can be heard! If it isn't easy for me to listen to your song I won't! Good methods for me are Youtube links and Spotify links, but anything else that works is fine, and I'll let you know if it doesn't!
* The BEST song that (in my judgement) FITS THE THEME WELL that I DON'T REMEMBER HEARING BEFORE will WIN, and the person who NOMINATED IT picks the next THEME.
* You may also mention additional songs - this is a good way to include classic songs which I probably already know. Other people may pick your suggestions as their official nominee, but unless this is done there is no guarantee I will listen to them, so please choose you ONE official nominee carefully! You don't have to provide links to songs you merely mention.
SOME GOOD SONGS I ALREADY KNOW ABOUT IN THIS THEME:
(man when did all youtube videos become unembeddable)
Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats (unembeddably: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxofSejV-7w)
Jazmine Sullivan - Bust Your Windows (unembeddably http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCgfgkrz_BA)
Blu Cantrell - Hit 'Em Up Style (unembeddably http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekIuWl-Ffq4)
Obviously I know others but we'll find out together which!
EDIT Oh and I guess I will stop accepting nominations on Friday night (unless it seems to peter out way earlier) and then render my OFFICIAL OPINION over the weekend.
Nominations please for the Best Songs About Women Getting Violent And/Or Creative Revenge On Men!
* You're aiming to nominate a song that is A) GOOD b) FITS THE THEME and C) YOU THINK I HAVEN'T HEARD YET
* Please OFFICIALLY NOMINATE one song only.
* Put your official nominations in BOLD, please.
* Please include some kind of a LINK whereby your nominated song can be heard! If it isn't easy for me to listen to your song I won't! Good methods for me are Youtube links and Spotify links, but anything else that works is fine, and I'll let you know if it doesn't!
* The BEST song that (in my judgement) FITS THE THEME WELL that I DON'T REMEMBER HEARING BEFORE will WIN, and the person who NOMINATED IT picks the next THEME.
* You may also mention additional songs - this is a good way to include classic songs which I probably already know. Other people may pick your suggestions as their official nominee, but unless this is done there is no guarantee I will listen to them, so please choose you ONE official nominee carefully! You don't have to provide links to songs you merely mention.
SOME GOOD SONGS I ALREADY KNOW ABOUT IN THIS THEME:
(man when did all youtube videos become unembeddable)
Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats (unembeddably: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxofSejV-7w)
Jazmine Sullivan - Bust Your Windows (unembeddably http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCgfgkrz_BA)
Blu Cantrell - Hit 'Em Up Style (unembeddably http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekIuWl-Ffq4)
Obviously I know others but we'll find out together which!
EDIT Oh and I guess I will stop accepting nominations on Friday night (unless it seems to peter out way earlier) and then render my OFFICIAL OPINION over the weekend.
Daddy left the proof on her cheek
Date: 2010-03-29 08:35 pm (UTC)Let me know if that embed is playable in Britain. If not, I'll give you a different one. You've possibly heard this before, since I push it all the time, but unlike my other potential nominees I haven't plumped for it in the best of the '00s polls, since it's from the '90s.
I did plump for Miranda Lambert's "Kerosene"
The Dixie Chicks "Goodbye Earl"
Maybe you haven't heard Miranda Lambert's Gunpowder and Lead (which someone should nominate)
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Date: 2010-03-29 09:08 pm (UTC)Also seconding Frank's mention of Miranda Lambert, "Gunpowder and Lead," and adding Rihanna, "Fire Bomb (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YFiSLBE9c8)," "G4L (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJBcgB7uukE)," and "Breakin' Dishes (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHjUcpXvlyA)," and Kelis, "Caught Out There (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-D0Qs3cy22c)."
And depending on how broadly we're defining "creative revenge:" Kelly Clarkson, "Chivas (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHaEKbiEjoE)." Demi Lovato, "Every Time You Lie (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWFWRLE1X3Q)." Rihanna, "Good Girl Gone Bad (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yb_aa8n2mQE)."
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Date: 2010-03-30 05:50 am (UTC)Speaking of which, you should all take a listen to Dwight Yoakam's "Intentional Heartache," sung by a man, but from the woman's point of view as she does the crazy ex-girlfriend thing.
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Date: 2010-03-30 02:37 pm (UTC)I can't think of anything for this theme though! I have lots of songs by angry women but none of them seem to be doing anything about it except MOANING.
Well - this lass has got revenge on her chap by WRITING A SONG about how she's writing a song about how rubbish this dude is. Meta-tastic.
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Date: 2010-03-30 05:53 pm (UTC)I perhaps may have been too specific on this theme! Though nobdoy has even mentioned Lily Allen yet. (although "Smile" is only definitely fitting the theme when you look at the video but still)
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Date: 2010-03-30 06:52 pm (UTC)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okRCZ4-5JE0
Creative uses for pickle jars!
Wanted to do the turn of the '90s Egyptian shaabi number "Akhbar, Ahram Akha Saah" by Shaaban Abdul Raheem, but couldn't find it on youtube. Translation: "With a big knife she created a massacre. She took the body and put it in plastic bags, and scattered it in many places."
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Date: 2010-03-30 07:59 pm (UTC)Do I have the slightest idea how to bold it? Nope.
But okay, I'll take three wild guesses about how; if it none of these work, somebody please bold it for me okay?
Roxanne Shante, "Fatal Attraction"
Roxanne Shante, "Fatal Attraction"
Roxanne Shante, "Fatal Attraction"
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Date: 2010-03-31 03:28 am (UTC)I also want to recommend Loretta Lynn, who is a 1960's version of Miranda Lambert. Her discography is full of songs about angry women, but "The Pill (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CoqErv8bdcI)" and "Devil Gets His Dues (http://www.amazon.com/Honky-Tonk-Girl-Loretta-Collection/dp/B000002OSX)" fit the theme the best. The "Devil Gets His Dues" clip is the best I can find at the moment, but it also has "Your Squaw is on the Warpath," which is slightly off theme but still close.
Hard To Tell Fear From Happiness
Date: 2010-03-31 07:33 am (UTC)sshhh, close your eyes, one two three, shoot
Date: 2010-03-31 10:22 pm (UTC)i recommend Vitriola by Silverfish - much loved in my teenage years
but my nom has to go to Shoot by Sonic Youth, since it is off one of my all time fave albums
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Date: 2010-04-01 05:01 am (UTC)hello i am pretending to work, excuse my typos
Date: 2010-04-01 08:02 am (UTC)I mean, I think 'I Don't Need A Man' (Pussycat Dolls) is a good 'creative revenge' song, in a sort of 'HELLO I AM MEDEA' way* but there are of course degrees of Medea. I like the way that and 'Professional Widow' use the medium as the means to some extent, so Tori's mocking her rapist's tiny c0ck publicly and Nicole Scherzinger is just being a bit more explicit than yr usual 'wahey I shall go and get my hair done and you'll wish you'd never left this' song but the difference in what's actually at play in the songs is obviously massive.
I s'pose what I'm saying is: I feel weird about this because it is such an expansive category that it seems simultaneously glib and too large to get a hook on. Something like 'revenge songs' generally might be less weird? I dunno, obviously this is just me and god knows, I'm in no position to criticise given the last time I did anything active was about this time last year but I sort of felt like I should say why I am not participating. I s'pose a conversation about revenge songs would be pretty interesting.
*This line of reasoning in full:
-'I don't need a man' is about w4nking
-Medea was all 'Jason I am not angry at you because you have stopped sh4gging me, I am angry at you because you have started sh4gging a younger edition and claimed this is all just to pay off the mortgage for me and the children'
-err
Re: hello i am pretending to work, excuse my typos
Date: 2010-04-01 08:44 am (UTC)Like "Independence Day" is among other things about community failure, the implication being that the ambivalent apocalypse didn't need to have happened if concerned neighbors had been willing to intervene - but nonetheless the song's energy rush comes from that apocalypse. Whereas Miranda Lambert is a lot more cavalier as to whether she'll bother to justify her vengeance songs, which makes her more of a punk, the vengeance being a combination of high spirits and a dark turning of her face to the wall.
And the stuff does run together, the funny songs and the pranks and the murder, with the actual violence being an outlier (that's what the Ramones' songs were about back in the day, taking the la-la-la boy-girl romance world and sticking in horror films and macabre headlines, sort of a combination of "there's something deeply wrong here in the la-la-la, the teen heartbreak songs of our youth suggested this, but we're going to bring it out" and an opposite, "Yes, we're all hurting and dysfunctional from our lives, so let's make a goof on it and dance to the goof, and maybe even find our way back to the beauty of the romance").
Re: hello i am pretending to work, excuse my typos
Date: 2010-04-01 02:48 pm (UTC)'Walk' by Pantera is a sort of similar (this is a sh1t example but I'm at work and happened to be listening to it on the tube) to 'Can't Hold Us Down' by Lil Kim and Christina Aquilera but it's seen as sheet aggressive (which it is) whereas 'Can't Hold Us Down' isn't (even though it also is) and there's only one of them you'd see on a 'empower yourself' compilation in the supermarket and I think this is a) an interesting dynamic and b) one that takes away from any empowering aspect of the female revenge song because it means ~oooh it is just a gurl they are not really dangerous~. Which is of course where Cowgirl from Hell Lambert comes in with the punk you're talking about.
Lord knows, I have plenty of (well, some of them now only semi-)obscure goth tracks to put into this genre; the entire of Opheliac is a revenge album and Rasputina often do revenge and Morgan Grace is a cartwheeling spew of it and of course Hannah Fury pretty much just has that and mother/daughter revenge as her schtick. These are theatrical things and they're interesting, particularly because the theatre of feminism is taking on strange angles, and the appropriation of abusive circumstances in order to legitimise threatening behaviour on the part of women, which to sort of come back to a conversation going on in several places elsewhere, is part of the terrible legitimising factor of 'quirk.'
I've been writing this all day in bits and lost track of it. Revenge songs are about power though and I think there's a potentially big and important (in the 'necessary to a lot of what's discussed here anyway' sense) ...well, not 'truism' because w/e but some sort of 'hammering out of philosophies' or whatever that can and should be done regarding the dynamics that these very songs play with. Which is all to do with the wider rock/pop/alienation thing that Poptimists spends a lot of its time engaged with.
Meh. That all sounds really w4nk and straight out of the mouth of some pseud but I don't really have time to sort it out.
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Date: 2010-04-01 09:32 am (UTC)Re: hello i am pretending to work, excuse my typos
Date: 2010-04-01 10:21 am (UTC)I remember reading an interview once with Blu Cantrell where she said she got fan mail about "Hit Em Up Style" and was horrified to learn that people had actually gone out and done as the song says - got revenge on cheating men. She said "It's just a song!". Blu creates a fantasy world.
Country music in particular draws on a strong folk tradition of murder ballads - stories in which someone comes to grief for the wrong they have done in their lives. AN detailed analysis of the semiotics of the murder ballad is beyond the scope of my reply right now but I will say that I don;t think the murder ballad was general every intended as a message saying "what the murderer did here was praiseworthy". There IS at least sometimes a moral message but it is usually aimed at the victim-class - "men, treat your woman right or she will go crazy and kill you", perhaps.
Perhaps this is all apologia for something I intuitively enjoy.
Re: hello i am pretending to work, excuse my typos
Date: 2010-04-01 02:53 pm (UTC)The 'fantasy world' thing is certainly a very interesting aspect to a lot of these songs; the real world/catharsis of songwriting world split is always kind of interesting, especially when it's with blunt metaphor.
Anyway: I think it's a good thing to post about, I just wanted to talk about the fact the genre (if indeed it is etc.) is a complicated one for me. Sorry if I came across as overly negative in the first post, I was more wanting to open discussion on the thing and raise the issues or whatever.
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Date: 2010-04-01 03:31 pm (UTC)My guess* is that "Independence Day" was written by a liberal (Gretchen Peters) and sung by a conservative (Martina McBride) but as far as practical policies go they both would be arm in arm in thinking that battered women and children need the support of the community, and that a man's home is not his castle, etc., despite that song actually saying "Maybe it's the only way," "it" being murder-suicide. (Martina's got a Janey's Got Her Gun–type song on her latest album, so she hasn't given up on the issue.) But the excitement of the apocalyse is another factor that sane, humane social policies don't really embody, and I don't know if any social policies should embody them. And Miranda seems to be in different territory with stuff like "Down," which doesn't seem to imagine a better way, or to finger anything like a "social problem" here. I think that Miranda might "get" the Ramones in a way that Gretchen Peters and Martina McBride wouldn't.
*I put "guess" because I don't really know McBride's politics, whereas Peters made it clear she did not support the Republicans and resented when right-wingers took bits of "Independence Day" out of context and tried to co-opt it.
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Date: 2010-04-01 01:01 pm (UTC)http://www.rhapsody.com/playlistcentral/playlistdetail?playlistId=ply.31104898
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Date: 2010-04-01 02:40 pm (UTC)Rihanna - Fire Bomb
Lots of conversation about this one already -- but I'll just re-emphasize one thing that has long drawn me to Rihanna, which is her cold self-seriousness paired with odd details. I can't think of another artist who would insert a small poetic description of microwaving metal as metaphor for the short-lived spark of a relationship that flamed out. Or maybe that's just the one memory she's got stuck in her head as she drives, not sure why it's the only thing she can remember.
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Date: 2010-04-01 02:53 pm (UTC)Taylor Swift and Mallary Hope sing a karaoke Gunpowder And Lead
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