The Decade In Pop
Aug. 27th, 2009 10:15 amMy enormous Pitchfork piece on "The Decade In Pop" is up: http://pitchfork.com/features/articles/7703-the-decade-in-pop/
Spotify playlist to go with it here: http://open.spotify.com/user/freakytrigger/playlist/6cudPLlniOyOrpX5M5Dnnz
Spotify playlist to go with it here: http://open.spotify.com/user/freakytrigger/playlist/6cudPLlniOyOrpX5M5Dnnz
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Date: 2009-08-27 03:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-27 04:08 pm (UTC)Beyonce is in club. Ex-boyfriend sees her. She sees him. She walks up to Random Guy, and starts dancing with him. She looks back at Ex-boyfriend and taunts him: "if you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it."
Pertinent details: She's been in a relationship with him for "three long years," has gone through agony after the break-up ("cried my tears") and now is getting some payback in the club.
The loose interpretation of it fails in both directions, which are too extreme: one side says it's about "celebrating singledom," is directed primarily at "all the single ladies" (in the audience). The other side says it reinforces traditional marriage, means that marriage is the only logical end to a relationship, forces heteronormative blah blah.
The reason these are both "shrill" responses is that they miss the personal complexity of Beyonce's situation. She thought she was with a guy she might spend the rest of her life with, and he couldn't commit. Now she wants to move on, but she can't quite -- she still wants to hurt him. She's using her new boy as a prop to get back at HIM. He still has power over her. This is clearer in the bridge:
"Here's a man that makes me then takes me and delivers me to a destiny, to infinity and beyond. Pull me into your arms, tell me I'm the one you own. If you don't you'll be alone, and like a ghost I'll be gone."
There's problematic language in there, "one you own," but she's essentially saying -- commit to me or I'll leave you. Just like I left that guy. And anyway, it's unclear to whom she's referring in the bridge; is she expressing her old feelings for her ex-boyfriend? Talking to the stranger, imagining the possibilities of where they could go? Either way she's projecting the previous relationship onto this one -- I wanted more, he didn't, we split; I don't want it to happen again, not least because it's a waste of my time, since I have a destiny to be with someone.
Anyway, the idea that this is just about being single is crazy, but the idea that it reinforces a narrow view of marriage is an overread, I think, or basic projection. Why shouldn't Beyonce want to find a soulmate? And how does this mean that she thinks it's appropriate for all women? Why shouldn't she be upset when the guy with whom she wants to settle down turns out not to want to settle down with her? She's hurt, but it also appears that she ended the relationship, because she doesn't want to spend three more long years with someone who doesn't give her what she wants.
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Date: 2009-08-27 04:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-27 08:02 pm (UTC)