Good criticism can prevent or supersede bad conversations by offering an alternative.
But people stay in bad conversations for much the same reason they stay in bad relationships: familiarity with the terms, fear of stepping into unknown territory, fear of abandoning one's coping mechanisms.
Re: A few cents' worth (the remix)
Date: 2007-05-15 05:10 pm (UTC)But people stay in bad conversations for much the same reason they stay in bad relationships: familiarity with the terms, fear of stepping into unknown territory, fear of abandoning one's coping mechanisms.