[identity profile] blue-russian.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] poptimists
Someone in The Other Place noted with disapproval the absence of women on the bill at the Reading Festival this year, (compared to women and mixed-gender bands from, say, a decade ago) and discussion quickly devolved into one aobut sexism in music.

I don't follow emo at all, but based simply on my scanning of music mags, the web, etc., it suddenly struck me that one reason for the lack of women is probably the fact that emo bands are so popular now, and every one of the bands that jump to mind are all-male. Is this just my ignorance of the scene? Or am I correct in somehow thinking that emo is a VERY male music?

Date: 2006-08-10 09:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chezghost.livejournal.com
I just don't where to start with this topic. :/

Date: 2006-08-10 09:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] juror8.livejournal.com
Opening post would be to suggest that although emo is one of the most masculine genres in terms of band membership for a very long time (since nu-metal, at least), it also has probably the highest female listenership of any genre (Kerrang is the only music magazine with more female readers than male). So perhaps we're looking at the same correlation as we did with boybands in the mid to late 90s. Teenage girls don't want to listen to slightly older girls.

Date: 2006-08-10 09:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] piratemoggy.livejournal.com
Emo, I always think, has a slightly chauvanistic tendency because of the way many of the songs tend to be about having your heart pissed on by a girl. Women tend to be synonymous with the word 'whore' in emo.

Which is why it's all the more bizarre that there are so many female fans of the genre. Unless, of course, all the bands were basically boybands for the angst generation...

There are a few emo girls; The Organ and probably Jenny Lewis' general material (Rilo Kiley and solo stuff) as well as particularly The Distillers but the first two are on the margins of the genre and The Distillers certainly wouldn't call themselves emo.

Date: 2006-08-10 09:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katstevens.livejournal.com
I wrote a big long rant about this topic last year, when I was still in a band. It sums up all I have to say on the matter (I can't be arsed typing it out again!)

http://katstevens.livejournal.com/200828.html (http://katstevens.livejournal.com/200828.html)

Date: 2006-08-10 10:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] freakytigger.livejournal.com
Jessica Hopper wrote an article about this "Emo: Where The Girls Aren't" which generated a lot of discussion (& a lot of hate mail apparently). It was online but doesn't seem to be now, mind you I only looked for 5 seconds.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katstevens.livejournal.com
I don't listen to the Today programme much anymore.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
I swear we've had this discussion somewhere else, probably the Other Place. I seem to recall going on about Bright Eyes at great length. XD

My basic reason for not expecting girl emo is that I think of emo as male-hysteric music, which by definition can't be made by gurlz.


(I'm kind of uncomfortable with p'mists talking about emo because none of us are actually in the scene at all, we really don't know anything about what it's like on the ground and seem to be discussing our shared imagination of the emo kid and what he/se/it 'surely must like', not the emo kids themselves. We're all in older cultural generations than the emo kids and are supposed to find it absurd, if we didn't there'd be no point to it.)

Date: 2006-08-10 10:21 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
It got taken offline by the evil white supremacist pressure groups that conspire to make Jessica "Hero of the Oppressed Minorities" Hopper's life a living hell.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katstevens.livejournal.com
early 20s = way too old for emo!

Date: 2006-08-10 10:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] freakytigger.livejournal.com
I think appreciating stuff as "pop" tho involves, or can involve, coming to an understanding of it that includes an imperfect understanding of the scene. One of the things that happens to music - willingly or not - when it becomes "pop" is that the imagined-scene becomes as or even more important than the real scene. This is one of the key reasons why fans and musicians hate pop.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] byebyepride.livejournal.com
I wonder if this is a classic example of a specifically male-gendered 'appropriation' of traits and behaviours (e.g. being 'emotional') more often attributed to women. I put 'appropriation' in scare-quotes to suggest that since these traits don't belong to anyone in the first place, this is more like a colonising of a discursive space into which women have already been restricted. A parallel example is the way male 'romantic' writing pushes out the predominantly female-authored sentimental poetry at the end of the eighteenth century. But those women were already adapting and using and playing with modes of feeling attributed to them in the immensely popular novels of Rousseau, Fielding etc. rather than reflecting some 'natural' fact. But this suggests that the correlation between male band and female audience need not be some terrible piece of oppression (although it excludes women as performers, women are unlikely to be internalising the 'women are evil' message, and more likely to identify with the male performer than the object of his disgust, esp. since the 'emo' artist is masquerading as a woman THIS IS ALL A BIG GUESS!), and that since rock inherits romantic values wholesale, it's merely a more refined example of a predominat trait. And given that hardcore (I guess but don't know) and indie (for sure), out of which emo seems to come, seem to me really misogynist (I've discussed this elsewhere -- 'I can't get a date because I'm shy and sensitive' becomes 'why won't you date me you bitch!') I'm hardly surprised that this is the case with emo.

I have read the Hopper essay. If I get a chance I'll look it up on my shelf and report back.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] byebyepride.livejournal.com
Is this why indie kids hate emo (see FT, obv.)? i.e. they see emo as a 'pop' version of rock.

Date: 2006-08-10 10:57 am (UTC)

Date: 2006-08-10 11:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
It's theater-kid music, I think? in the imaginary american high school we can all recognise, boys who are excluded from the male mainstream due to being geeky and effeminate.

There is something very satisfying in someone else being unhappy and unreasonable for you. For good or ill, it's generally assumed that women are more emotionally vulnerable than men, so the sound of a men being irrationally emotional can have more impact if you assume it's had to break through more layers of socially-expecetd repression.

Date: 2006-08-10 11:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
And the artifice - this is the theater-kid thing, it's very consciously histrionic, literally "acting up". Pantomime, melodrama, tragicomedy (P!ATD sometimes do this kind of semi-brechtian thing they totally learnt in drama class). Taking what you're given to the extreme: if I'm supposed to be effeminate i'll go androgyne and wear eyeliner, if I'm suposed to be angry i'll be incoherently spitting rage, if I'm supposed to be sad i'll be the saddest person in the world.

Date: 2006-08-10 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] freakytigger.livejournal.com
You can see this happening a bit in the comments box to the Popular write-up of "San Francisco", which is a really blatant dragging of a scene into a pop context. The pop context plainly one and it's only the dwindling band of hippies who 'were there' that would claim otherwise.

(i.e. "history" bears little or no relation to "memory" shocker)

Date: 2006-08-10 11:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
What's dishonest, there? Surely that's more human! A song in which someone lies to themself is surely as emotionally honest as a song in which someone expresses what it going on - more honest, even, because it represents a human emotional state which is flawed and confused and self-deluding rather than someone who's detached enough to see things in a sensible light.

Date: 2006-08-10 11:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
to which the emo kid responds: "oh, you're shy and sensitive all the time, are you? never angry, always resigned, getting meeker by the minute - you've never resented someone you had a crush on, only mooned poetically and perfectly over them from an appropriate distance, keeping your thoughts pure and loverlike? You're a paragon? You're not real."

Where the girls aren't.

Date: 2006-08-10 11:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] byebyepride.livejournal.com
'In those bands [Jawbox, Jawbreaker, Sunny Day Real Estate], there were songs about women, girls who weren't exclusively defined by their absence or lensed through romantic-spectre [sic.]. [...] In Jawbreaker songs women had leverage, had life, had animus and agency to them. Sometimes they were friends, or a siste, not always girl to be bedded or pursued or dumped by. They were accurate, and touched by reality. [...]'

ok: Hopper sees this as a change within emo culture rather than a defining attribute of it (when she started going to punk rock shows she could see Bikini Kill, or Babes in Toyland). She doesn't do much to try and explain it, except to say that this is music by adolescent boys for adolescent boys and none of them KNOW very much about 'real' women. She worries about all the young girls crowding down to the front of emo shows ("won't somebody think of the children!") who don't have the reference points she does which allow her to call out the emo boys. (Of course the two trends may be directly related, but she doesn't consider this, or the contempt that rock has always had for its audience (c.f. koganbot, on this).)

'I wonder if this does it for them, if seeing these bands, these dudes on stage resonates and inspires them to want to pick up a guitar or drum sticks. Or if they just see this as something dudes do, because there are no girls, there is no them up there. I wonder if they are being thwarted by the fact that there is no presentation of girls as participants, but rather only as consumers--or if we reference the songs directly--the consumed. I wonder if this is where music will begin and end for them. If they can be radicalized in spite of this.'

She recognises that much of what punk rock promises (i.e. difference, being outside the norm, something different from the mainstream) is largely a hollow sham, but that this is still what attracts young people seeking to express their anger / alienation. She thinks there's still a space for some kind of connection through this, but not for women if there are no 'real' women onstage or in the songs.

So she doesn't say much, really. I don't know if she thinks that punk rock is the only place where this good stuff can happen.

Date: 2006-08-10 12:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whalefish.livejournal.com
There's at least one emo-ish band fronted by a girl - Paramore, I think they're called. They aren't that good, but then, not many of them are.

Though there seems to be quite a few more biggish indie bands with girls in than there were a few years ago, and more females in metal, so perhaps emo will follow.

Date: 2006-08-10 12:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chezghost.livejournal.com
I'm glad there aren't more girl emo bands because the fewer emo bands the better generally (sorry to go all Lexy here).

This is just distraction from the more pressing need for more girls to make cyberpop, bosh etc. (and i don't mean just fronting it) plus running the labels, websites etc.

actually maybe Ada's wonderful 'Cool My Fire' is an emo song really...

Date: 2006-08-10 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] byebyepride.livejournal.com
Ellen Allien is totally emo!

Date: 2006-08-10 01:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cis.livejournal.com
I think it really does see petulance as emotional truth, is the thing! very adolescent, very self-righteous, very somehow 'american' (in that open-about-your-feelings-and-damn-the-consequences way). It's been said before, but the emo kids aren't the jocks but the inheritors to the korn kids, I think. (when i was in school i was v conscious of being the only 'indie' in a group that listened largely to rock and thence nu-/metal.)

Date: 2006-08-10 04:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] koganbot
Well, look, "emo" as a genre term has been around for over 20 years and (it seems to ignorant me) started as an attempt by harDCore punk boys to find a way to be punk without having to come on as tough - and you could see this in harDCore from the start in Minor Threat stuff like "In My Eyes" and "Out of Step": "You say that you like her/You just wish you did." Deciding to go all Cure 'n' Morrissey atop old Stooges drones was an obvious step from there. Of course, emo now can be a whole other animal, and once something starts getting really marketable, any and everything will find tangential reasons to get called emo. The emo phenomenon we're talking about now seems about 10 minutes old. The emo girls I know are 13 and their hearts are breaking. One of 'em quoted these lyrics from Red Jumpsuit Apparatus on her blog:

Do you feel like a man
When you push her around?
Do you feel better now
As she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend,
One day this world's going to end
As your lies crumble down,
A new life she has found.

Date: 2006-08-10 04:45 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] koganbot
Also, Meg & Dia are getting called "emo" now (don't know if they'd go along with this); I think of them as Vanessa Carlton decides to rock LOUD. Asking where the emo girl bands are is kind of like asking where the boy Tori Amoses and Alanis Morissettes are. If a girl's going to go emo it might be to go LOUD where previously she hadn't allowed herself to, whereas a boy might use it to go swishy and vulnerable.

To shift the topic slightly, based on very unrepresentative samples I'd say that cutting is way more a girl thing than a boy thing.

Date: 2006-08-10 04:52 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] koganbot
By the way, what do you guys think of Flyleaf? "Goth" never quite seemed the right term for them, or for Evanescence either. But "emo" isn't either. And have any of you ever made it to Kelly Clarkson album tracks like "Addicted" and "Hear Me," and Avril Lavigne tracks like "Unwanted" and "Losing Grip"? It isn't as if emo is the only source for feminized loud teen agony.

Date: 2006-08-16 07:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poptasticuk.livejournal.com
That's exactly what I was about to say, emo bands are to my 15 yr old sister what boybands were to me at that age (well, younger really but emo fans are getting increasingly younger too). Her room is covered from floor to ceiling in posters, she spends all day gossiping with friends about which is the hottest band member. It's scarily similar, and very depressing - if this is how these kids think music is supposed to sound then how awful is the music industry going to be when they're old enough to get jobs in it. Definitely moving to Sweden after that thought.

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